What does the BDSM emblem mean

The BDSM emblem has no "obvious" symbolism because it was created to be enigmatic. To the vanilla observer who would be put off by BDSM, it is merely an attractive piece of jewelry. Thus, we can wear it freely as a friendly salute, nod, and wink to other BDSMers we should happen to pass on the sidewalks and in the hallways of our daily lives.

To the insider, however, the Emblem is full of meaning.

The three divisions represent the various threesomes of BDSM. First of all, the three divisions of BDSM itself: B&D, D&S, and S&M. Secondly, the three-way creed of BDSM behavior: Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Thirdly, the three divisions of our community: Tops, Bottoms, and Switches.

It is this third symbolism that gives meaning to the holes in each unit. Since BDSM is at the very least a play style and at its greatest a love style, the holes represent the incompleteness of any individual within the BDSM context. However "together" and "whole" individuals may be, there remains a void within them that can only be filled by a complimentary other. BDSM cannot be done alone.

The resemblance to a three-way variation on the Yin-Yang symbol is not accidental. As the curved outline of Yin and Yang represent the hazy border between where one ends and the other begins, so do the curved borders here represent the indistinct divisions between B&D, D&S, and S&M.

The metal and metallic color of the medallion represents the chains or irons of BDSM servitude/ownership. The three inner fields are black, representing a celebration of the controlled dark side of BDSM sexuality.

The curved lines themselves can be seen as a stylized depiction of a lash as it swings, or even an arm in motion to deliver an erotic spanking. The all-embracing circle, of course, represents the overlying unity of it all and the oneness of a community that protects its own.

BDSM Power and influences

In the world at large there are many definitions for the word Power. However in BDSM, power can be defined as Personal Power, power that is maintains influence over the behavior, attitudes, and feelings of others. Power can be demonstrated through expression of commands, demands, directives, orders, and requests as to how others are to act, think, behave, feel, and believe.

Power is the attitude of strength, strength which is projected to others in order to direct how they react to the wielder of power and affect how some live their lives. Power is often wielded by people who desire to make their beliefs reality. They take charge in order to reorganize their existence to become the expression of what they believe life should be. They take over to ensure that their "reality" becomes the "reality" of people around them.
In order to understand Power and it’s crafting. We must understand the foundations of where power comes from; for Power is an expression of several things.

BDSM cravings

As a BDSM lover i always feel hungry for some great bdsm sex were a real mistress dominates me and restrain me from orgasm. everytime i watch BDSM Movies or BDSM videos i always envy the person that is taking the punishment and abused from a massochism mistress. In BDSM lifestyle i do love the concept of face sitting or the method were a dominant mistress sit in your face specially if your mistress has a nice juicy fat ass to sit in your face. I am sometimes wondering am i really a submissive slave? because i always fantasize being dominated and abused by a dominant women that will satisfy my BDSM cravings.